I'm a coach, mentor and therapist as well as a Domina, a qualified and chartered professional with 12 year's clinical experience. I work almost exclusively with fetish clients in one way or another, and live in a deep D/s relationship myself. I understand kink, sexuality and gender in primal ways, and I believe that the capacity we have been given to enjoy life and sex, kinky or otherwise is a gift we should value highly and celebrate.

What I do is not counselling. I don't believe in weekly meetings, month after month to drag through your past, to submerge you in the misery of things that should remain as history. I work with what I find in you now, and although on occasion past trauma may have to be revisited briefly, it will be done quickly and positively.

I take a very direct approach and usually make a difference in a session or two, with clients rarely needing more than a few sessions to set them on their way. Some do benefit from ongoing support, mentoring or domination, but even those with serious challenges often manage with just the occasional meeting point once they've started to make progress.

I've made my own journey through the horrors life can present you with, and I've come out of it being exactly who I wanted to be. I've refused to become a victim, I've refused to regard second best as OK, I've refused to accept suicide as a real option. I've come out the other side not only a survivor, but happy, content and successful. You can too, and as I've been there and made it, I can help you get through. But no guarantees that the journey won't be challenging!!