I've put these together because of the obvious link between them. If you're shy, you're going to struggle to date. Its a major problem if not resolved, but, unlikely as it may seem to you now, the solution can be very quick and very simple. Shyness is not as inherent as it may appear, it is a behaviour trait that you have picked up, usually at a very early age. Like any learned behaviour, it can be unlearned, and the process isn't difficult.

But, merely losing the shyness still leaves you at a disadvantage, without experience and less street-wise than your peers. Losing the shyness is a therapy process, but picking up from the lack of experience is a coaching process. I can give you a head start, teach you the basics of the dating game, and make up for some of that lost time and experience.

I can teach you how to overcome shyness, how to become confident, how to date, how to move through each stage of a new relationship. I can support you through this, guide you and give you feedback. I can help you write internet profiles, help you respond well to e-mails, help you find your way around the fetish scene, if this is where you need to hunt for your partner. I can guide you on your physical presentation too, all part of the 'confidence' trick!

Welcome to the world of the confident, you too can join them. You'll have to work at it, I accept no excuses, and it will be challenging at times, but we can get you there.